River Road and Jasmine Houses and Gardens Wedding | Madison and Clay

It was so fun to be part of Madison and Clay’s wedding day, nearly a year after we did their engagement photos with light sabers in Greenville!  This is the third wedding I’ve shot for someone in their family, so it was fun to catch up with everyone again!

Madison and Clay met through the art program at Shawnee State University, so between them, their family, and friends, there’s a lot of artistic talent.  Madison made the invitations and helped with the light saber bouquets.  Clay built different light sabers for himself, Madison, and each of the groomsmen.  Clay’s mom made Madison’s veil and comb, their brother-in-law made Star Wars masks for everyone, including Han and Leia for Clay and Madison, and the groomsmen did such a cool job painting the car!

This spring wedding was held at River Road and Jasmine Houses and Gardens in Columbia, South Carolina.  The whole day, they were surrounded by a garden with palmetto trees and flowers blooming.  Madison wore her great-grandmother’s pearl necklace, which was a beautiful and sentimental touch to her overall ensemble.  The boutonnières had the Rebel symbol on them and coordinated with the yellow flowers in Madison’s hair.   Madison walked down the aisle to Leia’s Theme, which made for such a beautiful moment during the ceremony.   Clay, of course, incorporated a quote from Anakin Skywalker into his vows: “Compassion, which I would define as unconditional love, is essential to a Jedi’s life.”

After the sun went down, we took some photos in the dark with the light sabers, like we did for their engagement session.  You don’t have to be into Star Wars to be impressed with the quality of these light sabers, but if you are, you might recognize some of the different Jedi’s hilts.  Madison wanted hers to be modeled after Leia’s in Episode IX.  (Check out the video Crissie and I took behind the scenes with the light sabers, and be sure to turn your sound on!)

Keep scrolling to see some of my favorite parts of this wonderful day! 

Venue: River Road and Jasmine Houses and Gardens

Dress: Azazie

Catering: River Road and Jasmine Houses and Gardens

Donuts: Duck Donuts

Video:  Matt Bowden

DJ:  DJ Krystyle

Officiant:  From This Day Forward

Hair and Makeup: Studio B at The Old Mill

Light Sabers:  The groom himself (Clayton’s Customs)

Assistant Photographer: Crissie Carpenter

Almost everything else you see here was a collaborative effort between the couple, their friends, and their families.

You May Also Like:

Madison and Clay’s Engagement Photos

Katie and Matt’s Clemson Elopement

Lindsay and Tim’s Camp Pinnacle Wedding

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Eloping in South Carolina

Overall, the word “elopement” still carries a negative connotation for lots of people. It’s become associated with tackiness, secrecy, haste, and being cheap.  Now, the meaning of the word is evolving, and so is our perception of what a wedding day should be.

However you choose to elope, you deserve the best photos from that day. Read more about what I do and to get in touch!

What is an elopement?

“Elopement” technically means “escaping,” so it became used as the word for running away together to get married.  I recently came across an episode of Fresh Prince where Will and Lisa secretly go to Vegas to elope instead of having a big wedding like they planned.  Even though they didn’t go through with the ceremony in Vegas, Lisa said that she felt she and Will had more of a choice in what their own wedding day looked like.  This still rings true today, even if eloping means something different.

Nowadays, an elopement is just a wedding without guests, and that looks different for everyone.  The thought became more popular in 2020 when large gatherings had to be postponed indefinitely, and people didn’t want to postpone actually being married.

Let’s address some of what you may have heard about elopements.

Elopements are cheap.

Yes and no.  If you have no guests, then you don’t have to pay for a big venue, tables, chairs, place settings, invitations, thank-you notes, favors, centerpieces, or whatever else you might provide for each person in attendance.  Lots of couples who elope still invest in quality wedding vendors, or they might budget for something else, like the dress they’ve always dreamed of, or airfare to get married somewhere scenic.  It’s all about paying for what you value, and that’s different for everyone.

Elopements are secretive.

It’s up to you whether to tell people about your wedding before or afterward.

Elopements are hasty.

Some people start planning elopements years in advance, just like they may for a more traditional wedding.  Others “make it official” after years of being together. Both are valid.

Elopements aren’t as special as bigger weddings.

The biggest pushback for elopements is probably the idea of not having your family and friends there to see you get married.  For a lot of couples, it’s not about excluding people, it’s just about having an intimate experience.  One couple said, “We loved the idea of just the two of us coming together before God in nature.” 

How beautiful is that? 

Some people prefer to exchange their vows without other people watching and listening.  It’s your decision whether or not to be surrounded by the people who are closest to you as you say your vows, and only you know who those people are. 

Logistics of Eloping

There’s a lot that’s possible when you’re not accounting for a large group of people. You may not need to reserve a space, depending on where you choose to have your ceremony and pictures.  Some couples have their ceremony on a mountain or in front of a waterfall, something that’s not easily accessible for other people.  Some choose to do it in a more public space, which is harder to organize with a group of people.  This elopement involved cutting their wedding cake right in front of Clemson’s Death Valley. It was on a whim and that would never work if there were more people than just the three of us.

No matter how you choose to get married, you will still need to sign a marriage license.  This process varies by state.  In South Carolina, you can either sign the papers at the courthouse or have a certified officiant come with you to where you want to have your ceremony.  South Carolina also does not require any witnesses to sign the forms.  North Carolina, however, requires two witnesses.  I can always serve as one.  The other could be your videographer if you have one, or even just someone who happens to be passing by.

For ideas on where to elope in South Carolina, check out this blog post!

What if I like the idea of both?

Maybe you love the idea of hiking to an overlook to say your vows, but you also love the idea of celebrating with your family and friends.  You have a few options:

1.  Split it into two days.  One day can be an intimate ceremony with just the two of you, and the other can be a celebration with your family and friends.

2. Take elopement-style pictures on a different day. Maybe you could get dressed up for an engagement session in a scenic place, or you could have an adventure session on your honeymoon in your wedding attire.

3. Invite a small group of people.  Covid popularized the term “microwedding,” which is pretty much the same thing as an intimate wedding, or a wedding with a small number of guests.  For some people, it’s just their parents, and for others, it’s around 25 people.

For more ideas for having a reception for your elopement, click here.

Just like any wedding, there aren’t really any rules for what you do and don’t need to have.  You can still have professional hair and makeup, a white dress, a catered meal, or a small cake, just like how you don’t necessarily have to include the typical wedding traditions in a bigger wedding.  In the end, your wedding day is up to you and your future spouse.  Maybe it’s a big party with a DJ and all your family and friends.  Maybe it’s a handful of people who are close to you in a pretty place.  Maybe it’s just the two of you at your house.  What does the perfect day look like to the two of you?  Start there.

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My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all of our state parks. Sometimes we wear hiking boots, sometimes we wear dress shoes, and sometimes we’re barefoot in the surf.

One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.

I can’t wait to meet you!

Elopement Planning Resources

Lavender Wedding Styled Shoot | The French Cottage

This styled shoot (a collaboration between wedding vendors to show the world what they can do) was French themed, so as someone who took French for 7-ish years, what’s not to love?  We met at The French Cottage, an elegant little Airbnb hidden in rural Pickens County.  It was set up to look like a ceremony for a micro-wedding, so hopefully this will help you picture how your wedding day might look!  Not only was there lavender everywhere (including some of the models’ hairpieces), the whole color scheme revolved around it, so there was so much purple!  The flatlays were SO much fun to put together, and since I was by myself when I did those, I had the American in Paris soundtrack playing on my phone as I set them up. 

We had two couples and three brides.  One of those brides, Kristy, happened to be there to help with the models’ hair and ended up modeling herself when another model couldn’t make it!  Each bride modeled multiple gowns and I love how different they all were.

This was such a fun day and I’m so happy to have met all these other creatives!  Here are the vendors who made these pictures possible:

Host: Hills Photography Studios

Venue: The French Cottage, Pickens, SC

Floral design and rentals: A Touch of Essence

Hair and Makeup: Katey Atkins, Kristy Hyde

Lavender: Twin Creeks Lavender

Hairpieces: Blushing Gold Brides

Catering: Kyla Woodard

Stationery: Tiger Lily Invitations

Soaps: Christine Wagner McBride

S’Mores: Cavity Kitchen

Illustrations: Cirque 91 Co

Gowns: Aletta Bridal, Belle & Kai

Models: Erica and Brian, Kaylan and Willie, Kalyn, Brittanie, and Kristy

Cake: Batterific Bakery

Macarons and Cookies: SoBella Sweets

Chocolates: My Favorite Sweets

Does your Pinterest board look like this? Check out some of my other work below or click here so we can start planning for your own photos!

How to Elope in SC

Planning Your Proposal

Ridge Asheville Wedding Styled Shoot

Upstate SC Engagement Photo Ideas