Venues for Small Weddings in Upstate South Carolina
How to Elope at Clemson University
Rainy Days
Elopement Ideas in Greenville, SC
Where to Elope in Upstate South Carolina
Avoiding Crowds
What to Do Near Greenville, South Carolina
Finding Spring and Fall Colors
How do you find spring colors? How do you find fall colors? It’s actually a lot more complex than it sounds! The short answer is that it depends on the altitude, how far you are in the season, and what plants are in the area. Here’s a more in-depth explanation, plus some details about where the best color is in upstate South Carolina.
How to Find Spring and Fall Color
My first suggestion is to Google when fall colors typically show in the area you’re looking at. A lot of places will have maps to show you where the color will peak throughout the season. I’ve found the Smoky Mountains fall foliage map to be mostly accurate for the Southeast.
My second suggestion is to use somewhere like a botanical garden as your location because there will be more of a variety of plants that will change color at different times. No matter when during the season you’re there, something there will turn colors and catch your eye, making this a great option if you can only be in the area on specific days. If you can be there when the color is at its peak, that’s even better! Below, here are two photos I took in the South Carolina Botanical Gardens. The first was taken at the end of February and the second was taken on the last day of November. Both times, I only found a few trees with any color on them and used them as much as I could.
I have an entire blog post dedicated to the South Carolina Botanical Gardens in Clemson, South Carolina and another one for the Lake Lure Flowering Bridge in Chimney Rock, North Carolina. The North Carolina Arboretum is also an excellent choice in the fall, and the Furman Rose Garden looks like a fairy tale in the spring.
My third suggestion is to keep the geography in mind. The air tends to be cooler at higher elevations and latitudes that are farther from the equator. The the trees around the mountains will change earlier in the fall and later in the spring. Also keep in mind what trees are common in that area and what they’ll look like. For example, in the fall, New England has a lot of maple trees that will turn red, while upstate South Carolina foliage tends to be more like a random yellow or orange tree, and lowcountry South Carolina might not have the right trees or temperatures to see a lot of foliage. New England will also have more fall color in September while South Carolina’s usually peaks in November. In the spring, most of the blooms in upstate South Carolina will be gone by the end of April, but you’ll still find beautiful pink rhododendrons in the mountains of North Carolina in May and June.
Where to Find the Best Spring and Fall Color in Upstate South Carolina
After spending the past several years in upstate South Carolina, I’ve noticed some patterns in where I find myself taking photos at different times. Here are some of my favorite spots:
Spring and Fall at Clemson University
I’ve done so many photo sessions at Clemson over the years that I have a favorite spring tree and a favorite fall tree on Clemson’s campus, and I know where to find the first pink tree and the last red tree of the year. Obviously you can go to the South Carolina Botanical Gardens, but there are plenty of other beautiful trees that you’ll see on the main campus. President’s Park usually gets full of pink and white in April, but you can find some pink and white between the Carillon Gardens and Martin Hall in March. The Carillon Gardens also has a nice orange tree, and you can find a yellow one and a red one around the Reflection Pond.
In downtown Greenville, there are usually flowers everywhere from the spring to the fall, with some trees and bushes that turn pink and white at different times. I usually only find a few trees at a time that give fall or spring color. There’s one tree along Liberty Bridge that stays yellow for most of the fall, and the road by the Medusa Tree will usually have some color late in the year, after almost all the leaves are gone.
South Carolina Mountains
The lake at Paris Mountain is one of the more colorful places to visit in the fall, but contrary to the name, you won’t get a mountaintop view here. Mountain Bridge Wilderness (towards Caesars Head State Park and Pretty Place Chapel) are at higher elevations, so they will start to show fall colors earlier than the rest of Greenville County. Pretty Place has some of the best foliage in the area, in my opinion, and a beautiful woodsy area next to the chapel. These two photos were taken on the same day—a beautiful fall road trip during peak foliage in the upstate.
I hope this helps you narrow down where to go and where to take your spring and fall pictures! I’m always finding new places and I hope to continue to update this with more photos. Even if you can’t be there during peak color, you can embrace the beautiful light that comes through bare trees, trees that are still green, or any Christmas decorations that might be around.
For more information about weather and how it affects your photos, check out these posts:
Ready for the best day ever?
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 48 of our state parks. Sometimes we wear hiking boots, sometimes we wear dress shoes, and sometimes we’re barefoot in the surf.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
Taking Photos in Cold Weather
Even though it doesn’t usually get that cold in South Carolina, sometimes winter is the best time to take your photos. Maybe you’re only able to see each other on winter break, or you had a Christmas engagement and want to take advantage of the Christmas scenery for your engagement photos. Either way, taking photos outside in cold weather takes some extra preparation.
I actually prefer cold weather over hot weather for photos. You can layer up as much as you want in cold weather and you won’t be sweaty. Bring hats, gloves, scarves, and extra layers so you can adjust for how warm you are.
Choosing a location is important for cold weather because you need to be careful of ice. In the mountains, or even in the shade, there may be a portion of the road closed for ice. Ice also makes things slippery, so walking or driving might be a little more hazardous.
It’s a good idea to choose a location that’s a good balance of shade and open space. Shade lowers the temperature, but trees and buildings can help block cold wind. Even though the trees won’t have leaves, it doesn’t look “dead” like you might think. I love the way the golden hour sun comes through the trees, like in the photo below.
You can even coordinate them to your outfit—I love this off-white peacoat for this winter session, and her mom made both of their scarves! In hindsight, gloves would have made this session a lot more enjoyable because the wind was so cold and strong that their hands were hurting and we ended sooner than planned.
I hope this was helpful! For more weather tips, check these out:
Ready for the best day ever?
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 48 of our state parks. Sometimes we wear hiking boots, sometimes we wear dress shoes, and sometimes we’re barefoot in the surf.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
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Taking Photos in Hot Weather
“Summer
It turns me upside-down
Summer, summer, summer
It’s like a merry-go-round”
—The Cars
Maybe you’re on a break from school, taking a summer vacation, or you just love summer scenery. Summer in South Carolina means our plants are flourishing, but our heat and humidity are as intense as the mosquitoes. Here are some of my tips for taking photos on summer days:
1. Consider choosing sunrise instead of sunset. Sunrise tends to be the coolest time of day. Even right after sunset, it’s still warmer and more humid than sunrise. It also tends to be less crowded at sunrise because it involves waking up early, and a lot of people don’t want to get up early enough for sunrise in the summer. Sunrise is about 6:15 in Greenville around summer solstice. For more information on deciding whether sunrise or sunset is the right choice for you, check out this post!
2. Bring a change of clothes. I always recommend having two outfits to give you variety, but this also gives you the option to spend less time in an outfit that makes you hot, and you can change into something else if you get sweaty. Check out this post for suggestions on what to wear!
3. Pick somewhere that’s not as exhausting to get to so you won’t be red, sweaty, and tired in your photos. For more suggestions for choosing a trail for your photos, check out this post.
4. Keep a bottle of water with you. Sometimes you don’t notice dehydration until you actually start feeling weak or sick. And don’t forget water and a bowl for your dogs if you’re bringing them! Here is more information about bringing your dogs for your photos.
5. Take advantage of shadier spots when the sun is higher in the sky. For this beach session, we used the shade to block out the sun, then we went out to the water as it got darker. The water acts as a giant mirror, so any sunlight will look really bright if there’s a lot of water.
6. Use sunscreen in the days beforehand. Please. Being pale looks better than being sunburned or having weird tan lines.
7. Be strategic with your location. Summer means that a lot of people will be traveling, and they may be visiting the same scenic location you’ve chosen for your photos. Sunrise can help with avoiding crowds, but so can going on a weekday, or finding lesser-known places. For more ideas on where to take engagement photos in upstate South Carolina, check out this post.
8. Have a rain plan. Summer evenings in South Carolina pretty much always have that forecast of “50% chance of scattered thunderstorms in the evening.” If it’s difficult for you to reschedule, we can find a covered area, like the Wyche Pavilion in downtown Greenville. Here are some more ideas for locations in downtown Greenville, and here is some info on how to navigate cloudy days.
Bonus for photographers: take your camera out of your bag a few minutes before you want to start taking your photos. Your camera might fog up if it’s really hot and humid out, and there’s nothing you can do except wait.
Bonus for upstate South Carolina: the South Carolina Botanical Gardens has a desert garden area that looks best in the summer when the succulents can thrive on the heat! Check out this post to see more photos from there!
I hope this was helpful! For more weather tips, check these out:
Ready for the best day ever?
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 48 of our state parks. Sometimes we wear hiking boots, sometimes we wear dress shoes, and sometimes we’re barefoot in the surf.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
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Where to Elope in South Carolina
Want to elope in South Carolina?
You’re in the right place if you don’t feel like a big wedding is the right fit for you and your partner, but you want the day to be a little more exciting than signing papers at the courthouse and calling it a day.
If you’ve read my post on how to elope in South Carolina, you already know that eloping doesn’t have to be at a courthouse or in Las Vegas, and you have multiple options for how to become legally married. A wedding without guests, or with only a few guests, still deserves to be the most beautiful day for you and your partner. Part of that involves setting the scene—where is the best place for YOU to elope in South Carolina?
If you’re looking for places to elope in upstate South Carolina, check out my post for where to elope near Greenville!
In this post, I’ll be talking about places to elope in South Carolina, including:
Wedding Venues in South Carolina
Hotels, Inns, and Rental Properties
Parks
Mountains
Beaches
Gardens
Lakes
Downtown
Waterfalls
Somewhere that’s special to you
And of course, the classic places: churches, courthouses, the post office, or your house!
What would your perfect day look like? Read about the elopement experience to get some ideas and see how I can help!
Elopement Venues in South Carolina
Why would you rent a whole venue if you’re eloping?
It can ensure that nobody else is around.
You have a solid plan for a place to go, and you won’t show up and have it be closed.
A venue will have bathrooms and usually better accessibility, like ramps for wheelchairs.
There are usually designated places within a venue, like a place to get ready and a place to eat, so you can keep your whole day in one place and between the two of you.
If there’s a wedding venue that you love, see if they offer an elopement package! Some venues only offer this package during certain days or times of the week, and some allow a small number of guests. Here are a few pretty venues in South Carolina for an elopement:
Pretty Place (pictured above): Fred W. Symmes Chapel at YMCA Camp Greenville, or “Pretty Place,” is one of the most popular wedding venues in South Carolina, and one of the most popular places in South Carolina for an elopement. One of the most beautiful sunrises I’ve ever seen was at this open-air chapel in the mountains, right on the border between the Carolinas, and it gets some of the best fall foliage in the whole state. Explore other parts of Mountain Bridge Wilderness as you head back towards Greenville, then stop for a nice meal in Greenville or Travelers Rest to celebrate!
Cypress Gardens: If you’re looking for places to elope near Charleston, it doesn’t get more picturesque than Cypress Gardens. You can even ask the staff to take you to where some of your favorite movies were filmed, like where Allie and Noah take a rowboat through the cypress trees and Spanish moss in The Notebook.
Cliffs at Glassy Chapel: This chapel is in a private living community in Landrum, in northern Spartanburg County. The view from the top of the mountain is one thing, but the stone chapel is one of the prettiest I’ve seen in South Carolina.
Hewitt Oaks: When you picture a wedding in lowcountry South Carolina, this is basically as romantic-looking as you can imagine. These live oak trees in Beaufort are just dripping with Spanish moss!
View Point at Buckhorn Creek: A garden venue with Japanese vibes in Greenville where you can see the mountains in the distance. Honestly, I can’t get over how many colors are here in the spring and how big the fish in the pond are. There’s a getting ready area and plenty of space for you and any guests to have a catered dinner. Paris Mountain State Park is right down the road.
Old Sheldon Church or Chapel of Ease: Both of these historic chapel ruins in lowcountry South Carolina are hundreds of years old with no shortage of Spanish moss and southern mystique. They are both part of St. Helena Parish.
Bent Creek Farm: This venue in Anderson offers multiple ceremony spaces, a getting-ready area, and a covered indoor area as a rain plan or a space for a small reception.
River Road and Jasmine Houses and Gardens: These two houses in Columbia have plenty of beautiful garden space in between them, full of pretty flowers, bushes, and Palmetto trees. There’s plenty of space for getting ready and you can pivot to an indoor space if you need to.
Skylight Chapel: A small chapel in Taylors with both indoor and outdoor ceremony options. This is just a few minutes from Lake Robinson.
Palmetto Bluff: Want to get married in one of the places where Justin and Hailey Bieber got married? Well, here it is! This resort and spa offers white chapels and views of the South Carolina marshlands. This is in Bluffton, near Hilton Head.
Heyward Manor: In the quiet of Iva, South Carolina; you can choose between getting married in or outside a white barn, among the flowers, or in a rowboat on the lake!
Belle Tesoro: the name combines the French word for “beautiful” and the Italian word for “treasure.” This beautiful house near Spartanburg has Tuscan-inspired scenery, a gazebo for an outdoor ceremony, and gorgeous staircases for photos!
Ballenger Bridge: There are so many options here for where to elope, from mountains to a creek to a gazebo over the water. This is in Landrum, about 45 minutes from Greenville.
Hotels, Inns, or Rental Properties
First things first: make sure the manager or the owner of the rental property knows you’re planning to get married here. Some AirBnBs specifically don’t allow weddings, so you’ll need to be on the same page with the owner about what’s happening, even if you’re not planning to have guests. Here are some hotels and inns that would be great places in South Carolina to elope:
Red Horse Inn (pictured above): Red Horse Inn is in northern Spartanburg County along Scenic Highway 11. Coming up the stairs and seeing this patio just about took my breath away! You can see some of the private cottages in the background, where you and your dogs can spend the night. Also, you could have a mini-pig as your witness. Campbell’s Covered Bridge is just a few minutes down the road, too. This couple had their elopement photos taken in both places!
Inn at Folly Beach: You can elope on the beach, at the Morris Island Lighthouse, or anywhere in between! The inn also offers services like cake and florals.
Bleckley Inn: One of my favorite venues is right in the middle of downtown Anderson. There are multiple spaces here that can be used for an elopement or a small wedding, even if there’s another wedding happening in the main courtyard that day. You, and any guests you invite, can stay there the night before and after the wedding. This couple was married in one of the smaller dining rooms with a few family members and friends, then we took some photos outside.
Hotel Domestique: a small European-style inn north of Travelers Rest that overlooks the mountains. The inn is small enough that you and a handful of guests can have it all to yourselves. Treat yourselves to dinner afterwards at their restaurant, Restaurant 17
Westin Poinsett: Another one of my favorite venues is the Westin Poinsett, or the Poinsett Hotel, right in the heart of downtown Greenville! This 1920s hotel has multiple ballrooms and some beautiful staircases, windows, and floor tiles. If you think the word “Poinsett” looks like “poinsettia,” they’re both named for the same person, and there are plenty of poinsettias in there near Christmastime! The Westin Poinsett is almost right across the street from Falls Park.
Grand Bohemian Lodge: This gorgeous hotel is right at the end of Liberty Bridge and has one of the best views of Falls Park. If the hotel itself didn’t already have enough scenery, you’re close enough to walk all around downtown Greenville.
South Carolnia State Parks
While a few state parks have actual wedding venues (like the Table Rock Lodge, Atalaya Castle at Huntington Beach, and the Legare-Waring House at Charles Towne Landing), you can also call the office at your favorite park to get information about eloping there! For more popular parks, you can avoid crowds by getting married on a weekday or during the winter. If you have a small number of guests, you can ask about renting a picnic shelter with a view.
I’ve been to all 48 state parks in South Carolina and can help you choose the perfect spot to get married. Waterfalls, beaches, mountains, marshes, a castle, a lighthouse - the state parks have it all! While I think all of them have the potential to be an amazing place to elope, here are some of the ones that stand out to me:
Table Rock (pictured above): This park in Pickens County has something for everyone, whether you want to hike for days or just drive to a pretty view. For an elopement, I’d recommend a short waterfall hike and watching the sunset over the mountains from the pier.
Caesars Head: One of my favorite views in the state is sunset over the mountains from the Caesars Head overlook in northern Greenville County. The overlook can be reserved during non-peak times so that you can have some privacy.
Devils Fork: This park in Oconee County is the only public access point to Lake Jocassee, one of my favorite places in the state. Say your vows on the shore or take a boat to some of the islands and waterfalls!
Hunting Island: There’s a driftwood beach here that’s perfect for a sunrise ceremony. Walk back to the rest of the park through a trail that feels like a jungle. You’ll be able to see for miles from the inside of the lighthouse!
Myrtle Beach: Myrtle Beach State Park is a relief from the crowds and litter that you’d find in other parts of Myrtle Beach. If you spend the night in the park, you can easily get to the beach for sunrise, when not as many people are awake.
Huntington Beach: Just south of Myrtle is Huntington Beach, which is also beautiful. There are lots of overlooks over marshes and if you like birds, you’ll probably see some cool ones. Atalaya Castle, a Spanish moor-style mansion, is also available to rent as a wedding venue.
Charles Towne Landing: One of the prettiest tree tunnels I’ve seen is the one in front of the Legare-Waring house, which is available to rent as a venue. There’s also a small zoo here if you want to see some animals afterwards.
Edisto Beach: This island is basically the epitome of lowcountry South Carolina scenery. Not only can you have a sunrise ceremony at the beach here, our randomly chosen campsite had a gorgeous view of the marsh at sunset.
Santee: Stay in a cabin that “floats” over Lake Marion and get married on the porch, overlooking the lake.
Jones Gap: Most of the scenery here involves a little hiking, which can vary from an easy trail to some of the hardest in the state. I’d choose Jones Gap Falls because the trail isn’t too hard, so you won’t be exhausted by the time you say your vows. The fall colors here are so beautiful!
Keowee-Toxaway: There’s a beautiful little overlook here that requires a little bit of hiking. Stay a while to have a picnic and watch the sunset!
May Forest: South Carolina’s newest park is still in its “soft-open” phase, but it would be a great spot for an elopement! It used to be a convent, so there’s a pink chapel surrounded by garden scenery and a perfect view of the Charleston Harbor and skyline.
If you want to know more about each park from someone who’s visited every single one, you can read about all of them or reach out to me if you have questions!
Gardens
One great thing about gardens is that they’re made to look beautiful at any time of year. In the “pretty” times of year, you’ll have a wider window for when you’ll get spring or fall scenery. Here are some gardens in South Carolina where you can elope:
South Carolina Botanical Gardens (pictured above in the winter): This is part of Clemson University, which has strong roots in agriculture and tons of people who are passionate about plants. There’s endless scenery from around the whole state of South Carolina. There are also venues and ceremony spaces to rent if you’re planning to have guests.
Riverbanks Zoo and Botanical Gardens: Get married, then walk around the zoo! There multiple venues and ceremony spaces here that can be rented, with scenery inspired from all over the world.
Brookgreen Gardens: Just south of Myrtle Beach, Brookgreen Gardens has some beautiful garden scenery, sculptures, and Spanish moss. You will have to become a member of Brookgreen Gardens to get married here.
Downtown in Your Favorite City
If you don’t mind a crowd, or if urban scenery is your vibe, you can elope downtown in your city! As a resident of the Greenville area, I’m partial to Greenville’s downtown, which has a waterfall and a beautiful little park right in the heart of downtown, so you don’t have to choose between a place with urban or natural scenery. But downtown in any city could give you the option for renting a patio space, amphitheater, restaurant, or rooftop. You can also hop from your ceremony to dinner to anything else that excites you there: live performances, festivals, ice skating, or just a hotel to relax afterwards.
Here’s what an elopement in Greenville could look like!
Mountains
Should you hike to a summit with a gorgeous view, or make it an easy day at a restaurant, inn, or venue? Up to you!
While I’ve already mentioned some venues in South Carolina with mountains, you can also find a view from a few different summits. Catch the sunset at Bald Rock or Caesars Head, or trek up to Sassafras Mountain for a 360 view while one of you stands in North Carolina and the other stands in South Carolina. Some of these views require hiking, so check out some of my suggestions for finding a trail.
To learn more about choosing a hiking trail for your photos, see what I look for in a trail.
Waterfalls
Whether you’re looking for a hiking adventure or an easy walk from your car, you have plenty of waterfalls to choose from in South Carolina. Waterfalls are a little tricky because they can either be difficult to get to or they can have a lot of people. Here are a few not-so-secret ones that I’d be happy to use for an elopement, but you can see more here.
Station Cove Falls (pictured above): This is one of my favorite waterfalls. It’s an easy trail with plenty of scenery along the way. It’s in Oconee County, close to some other cool natural scenery, like Oconee Station and Stumphouse Tunnel. This couple chose Station Cove because they had about 10 family members they wanted to join them and they wanted a trail that wasn’t very difficult.
Reedy River Falls: This is the most famous one, right in the middle of downtown Greenville, but there are other smaller waterfalls within walking distance of it. There are plenty of restaurants around it if you want to celebrate afterwards! For more ideas on having a reception after your elopement, click here.
Rock Quarry Garden: It’s easy to drive right past Rock Quarry Garden without realizing it’s there. It’s in downtown Greenville, below two streets. It has a small waterfall at one end of the garden.
Wildcat Wayside: This is a one-mile trail in northern Greenville County with 3 waterfalls. The first one is a 10-foot waterfall that you can see from the road. The second is a smaller, wide waterfall up a set of steps. The third one is the biggest, but it looks more like a little trickle on a rock to me, so I’d stick with the two at the bottom.
Table Rock State Park: There’s a dam near the visitor center, but there are also 3 waterfalls of varying sizes along the 2-mile Carrick Creek Trail.
Lake Jocassee: There are at least 5 waterfalls on Lake Jocassee that are only accessible by boat.
Jones Gap: While Rainbow Falls is one of my favorite places in the state, it’s a difficult trail for only being 4 miles. I’d suggest Jones Gap Falls, which is a little shorter and not as difficult.
Beaches
Everyone thinks of Myrtle Beach and Charleston when they think of South Carolina. Even though MOST of the state isn’t actually beaches, the coast does have some really pretty spots, and it’s no wonder people visit there so much, but you can find plenty of beaches that aren’t as crowded. For a more private ceremony, get married close to sunrise, when the sun is over the water, and enjoy the rest of the day on the beach as a married couple!
Since South Carolina beaches tend to get a lot of tourists, I’d recommend either choosing a beachfront venue with an elopement package, finding a rental property along the beach, or reaching out to a park office to see if they can find a private place for you.
The four South Carolina State Parks along beaches are Myrtle Beach State Park, Huntington Beach State Park, Edisto Beach State Park, and Hunting Island State Park. Each has its own unique scenery!
Myrtle Beach Wedding Chapel: There is a small wedding chapel on Myrtle Beach with a reception hall area, providing an indoor option for bad weather.
Inn at Folly Beach: Get married in front of the best surfing waves in South Carolina or the Morris Island Lighthouse! The inn also offers services such as cake and florals.
Palmetto Dunes at Hilton Head: This resort provides space for up to 50 guests and has the option to add decor, such as an arbor to go with the ocean backdrop.
If you’re in the Upstate, but still like the look of the beach, Devils Fork State Park might be the place for you!
Lakes
If you love water but you don’t live near the beach, we have plenty of lakes in South Carolina to have your wedding!
The lakes in the upstate along Highway 11 have some gorgeous views of the mountains. This couple got married at Lake Keowee with just a few family members!
I’ve mentioned Lake Jocassee a lot in this post, since it’s my favorite lake, but there are several in South Carolina. I was married at Clemson in front of Lake Hartwell, one of the biggest lakes east of the Mississippi River. Lake Keowee (pictured above) has multiple access points, but there are also lots of lake houses available for rent. Several of the South Carolina State Parks serve as a public access point to a lake, and you can ask the park staff what their policies are for weddings.
Courthouse or Post Office
A post office? Hear me out on this one:
First of all, one venue in upstate South Carolina actually is an old post office that was converted into a wedding venue, but kept the aesthetic of a 1940s post office.
Second of all, a post office can provide a notary public, who can take care of the paperwork for you to become legally married.
A courthouse could also be where you sign the papers saying that you’re legally married so that you don’t have to worry about that on the actual wedding day. That gives you the rest of the day to adventure together as a married couple!
Churches
This is a great option for couples who want intimacy for their ceremony, but still like the idea of a church wedding. One good thing about getting married in a church is that it comes with officiants!
If you don’t want to get married at the church you attend, you can ask your pastor to come with you to a chapel that isn’t affiliated with a parish, like Pretty Place, Cliffs at Glassy Chapel, or the chapels at Palmetto Bluffs.
Private Property
You could even get married at your own house! If a family member or friend has a beautiful house or land that you love, you could ask them to be a witness to your wedding.
A backyard wedding doesn’t sound glamorous, but using your home as your wedding venue can be really special. Make it as pretty as you want, and you can even keep it decorated if you want!
Somewhere that’s Special to You
If it’s just the two of you, the sky is the limit for where to get married! For this couple, it was the amphitheater at Clemson University. Let’s face it, that amphitheater is a gorgeous place to get married, and they’ve been there so many times together.
At the end of the day, it’s about you two. It doesn’t matter how crazy your ideas sound to anyone else, especially if you’re not having guests.
Read more about the elopement experience to get some ideas, then we can start planning together!
How do you want to remember your wedding day?
Ready for the best day ever?
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 48 of our state parks. We love being outside as much as we love being on the couch and watching Pixar movies together.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it has just about everything in terms of scenery. Whether you’re looking for a mountaintop, a lake, or a beach; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
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Ideas for Elopement Receptions
If your wedding ceremony is just the two of you, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a reception. It’s your wedding day, and you still deserve to celebrate it!
Elopement Reception Ideas:
1. Have a meal catered for two at your ceremony site.
Some caterers will deliver and set it up, just like they would for a traditional reception. A local restaurant might offer this as well. Eat some good food, cut your cake, pop some champagne, and enjoy the rest of your wedding day!
2. Make a dinner reservation.
You can celebrate at one of your favorite places to eat together, or you can treat yourselves to a new restaurant that’s a higher-end dining experience than what you’d normally choose.
3. Bring your own food to have a picnic with a view.
Make your own food, order takeout, or use a picnic service! Yes, picnic services are a thing—check out one service based out of Greenville!
4. Have a big reception with your family and friends on a different day.
It might seem counter-intuitive, but there are three reasons that come to mind for why someone might want to do it this way:
You like the idea of celebrating with other people, but still want the privacy and intimacy of an elopement ceremony.
It’s hard to get both of your families together. For example, my cousin married someone whose family lived overseas, so they had one reception with her family and one reception with his.
I’ve seen some couples who have a smaller ceremony before their planned wedding date to accommodate extenuating circumstances, like military deployment or to include a relative who is terminally ill.
Ready for the best day ever?
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 47 of our state parks. Sometimes we wear hiking boots, sometimes we wear dress shoes, and sometimes we’re barefoot in the surf.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
Planning Resources
Sunrise or sunset?
The best natural light happens within the hour after sunrise or the hour before sunset. Depending on the time of year, the sun rises in the upstate between 6:15 and 7:30, and sets between 5:20 and 8:45. I usually have my sessions closer to sunset because people tend to not want to be out at sunrise, but I’m usually open to either one.
How you decide whether sunrise or sunset is the better option for you?
Where does the scenic view face?
You’ll want the view behind you, but you also want the sun behind you for more flattering lighting and more colors in the sky. The sun rises over the water on east coast beaches and it sets over the water on west coast beaches. One example in the upstate is Pretty Place Chapel vs. Caesars Head. They overlook the same area, but they face different directions. Pretty Place will have the sun rise behind the cross, and Caesars Head will have the sun set behind the overlook.
Do you want people there?
If you want to avoid crowds, it’s usually better to wake up early and get there before people are usually out. If you want other people there with you, like your family and friends, it might be easier for them to get there at sunset.
Temperature
The outside temperature tends to be cooler at sunrise and warmer at sunset. If you want your photos on a mountain, the cool air in the morning might be too much in the colder months. There could also be ice at higher elevations, which is more likely to form overnight and still be there in the morning. For a summer beach session or an elopement that involves hiking, sunrise might help you beat the heat.
Clouds
Sometimes in the mornings, the clouds are lower. At higher elevations, this might mean you don’t see the views down below, but it could also look really cool.
Timing
A sunrise session gives you more time to spend the day together later, while a sunset session gives you more time beforehand. If you want to have your hair and makeup done or head to a barbershop before having your photos done, you might have better luck with scheduling that before a sunset session. If you want to get married and spend the rest of your wedding day adventuring, sunrise might be a better option for you.
What if I can’t do sunrise or sunset?
It’s not impossible to get good photos midday, but the light isn’t as easy to work with, so it’s harder to get what you want in the background with flattering light on your faces. If midday is the only time you’re available, we can work it out. I typically pose people with the sun behind them, but if that’s not where the pretty background is, I try to have one person block the sun on the other, or I have them face the side so their eyes aren’t in the shadows. The sky tends to be bluer, but the background may be overexposed. Here are a few examples of photos I’ve taken midday to help you get an idea of how they’re different.
I hope this helps you decide what time of the day is the best option for you! For more information about weather and what it might look like in your photos, check out these posts:
Ready for the best day ever?
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 48 of our state parks. We love finding new outdoor places to visit, but we also love hanging out on the couch and watching Pixar movies.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
Planning Resources
How to Choose a Trail for Your Photos
I absolutely love going on hiking trails with couples! We can do this for an engagement session, or you could even have an intimate wedding ceremony out on a trail! I have some guidelines for trails so you can have a good time AND plenty of photos you love!
1. What is the scenery like along the trail?
Are there multiple spots along the trail that can look pretty in your photos, or is there only one tiny overlook? For example, this trail has plenty of variety before you get to the waterfall, like plant life, a pond, and a bridge over a stream.
2. How difficult is this trail?
I don’t want it to be too strenuous because I don’t want you to be red, sweaty, and exhausted in your photos. I also don’t want any of us to not feel well during/after the session. I know plenty of views here that overlook mountains and waterfalls, and won’t take a toll on your well-being or how you look in your photos.
3. How long is this trail?
It needs to be short enough for us to get good light on the trail and still get out before it gets dark or the parking lot closes. For example, getting to a scenic view for sunset on the Table Rock trail can take hours, and it could be completely dark and after the park’s operating hours by the time we get back to the trailhead.
4. Does it get crowded here?
The trail needs to not be too crowded so there aren’t a lot of people in the background. Also, your session is a lot more intimate if other people aren’t around. For example, any trail at Paris Mountain will probably have lots of hikers and mountain bikers on a Saturday. ⠀
5. Most importantly:
We need to be able to do this safely—I don’t want to risk anyone getting hurt to get good photos. A 3-mile scramble might not be worth the photos, and I need to be able to pose you safely. The Falls Creek Falls trail, for example, is mostly covered in rocks and tree roots, so it’s easy to trip or roll an ankle. There also aren’t a lot of places in front of the waterfall where I’m comfortable standing or telling someone else to stand.
If you and your partner still want to head out on a trail for your session or elopement, awesome! I know plenty of trails in the upstate that meet most, if not all, of these bullet points. Also feel free to check out my blog post to give you ideas of what places in the upstate might fit your vision—you can check it out here!
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 48 of our state parks. Sometimes we wear hiking boots, sometimes we wear dress shoes, and sometimes we’re barefoot in the surf.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
Planning Resources
Planning Your Proposal
So you two are ready to start planning the rest of your lives together! Going from “dating” to “engaged” is a big step. How do you want to pop the question?
First of all, there’s no right way for everyone to propose. The only thing that matters is that it’s what you and your partner want. It can be as simple or complex of a plan as you want. These are just some steps to make it less stressful.
1. Pick a special place. Maybe it’s a place with a pretty view, and maybe it’s a place where you two share memories together. Think about how many people will be there and how easy it’ll be to access the spot you want.
2. Pick a time. The hour before sunset and the hour after sunrise are what we call “golden hour.” This gives us that pretty glow and is the most flattering on your faces. The exact time of golden hour will vary depending on where you are and what time of year it is, but I’m happy to coordinate that with you. Getting the sun behind you will be prettiest, but if that doesn’t work with your plan, we can find a spot in better light.
3. Decide when your partner will know what’s going on. If you want it to be a total surprise the second you pop the question, then you’ll need to be in a place where I can easily hide. That could either mean finding a hiding place or blending in with a crowd.
4. Pick a spot you know you can easily get to. Let’s use the Table Rock summit as an example, because I’ve gotten this request before. And I get it—getting on one knee in front of that overlook would be so beautiful. Physically, it takes a lot for you, your partner, and your photographer (if you have one) to get there, especially in the warmer months, even if you’re experienced hikers. To quote another photographer who has been to this summit, “You will not be cute by the time you get to the top.” If one of us needs to turn around, or if the parking lot is full, we may not be able to communicate that to each other because cell service is so spotty there. It’s way easier if we simplify the plan, especially if your partner isn’t supposed to know I’ll be there.
For places in the upstate that are beautiful, easy to navigate to, and won’t wear you out before it’s time to take pictures, click here. If you were actually thinking about proposing at the Table Rock summit, that post will tell you about similar views and other pretty parts of the park.
5. Think about what to wear. If getting dressed up will tip off your partner, it’s up to you how to proceed, but keep in mind that they may want to wear something nicer for these photos. If you do choose to wear something nicer, make sure it won’t get messed up as you’re getting to the spot.
6. Protect the ring. How you hide the ring depends on the situation, but some people have found that a ring box doesn’t sit well in their pockets. You could find a smaller box, a different container to protect it, or put the box deep in a bag you’re carrying so it doesn’t get moved.
7. Leave time to tell everyone. You might not know until after the proposal whether you’ll want to tell your family and friends ASAP or take some pictures first, so leave a little bit of time in case you decide to make a few phone calls.
8. Consider the crowds. Are you and your partner okay with having onlookers as you get engaged? If not, consider proposing in a time and place where you might not encounter as many people. People tend to not be awake around sunrise on the weekends. There tends to be fewer people going downtown or to hiking trails on weekdays. Overall, not as many people go outside during the winter.
I hope this helps give you some peace of mind as you take the next step in your relationship! Read more about my engagement photo services, and check out some of the blog posts below to get some ideas!
My name is Christine (Scott) Gow and I’m an elopement photographer based out of Greenville, South Carolina. I’m a wife and a beagle mom. The three of us have visited beautiful places in every corner of South Carolina, to include all 48 of our state parks. Sometimes we wear hiking boots, sometimes we wear dress shoes, and sometimes we’re barefoot in the surf.
One thing I love about South Carolina is that it’s not just the beaches and colorful houses that you imagine when you picture it. Whether you’re looking for mountains, beaches, or anything in between; I can help you find the perfect place for the two of you and make it as smooth of a day as possible. No matter how you two choose to spend your day, I’m happy you’re doing it the way that you want.
I can’t wait to meet you!
Planning Resources
How to Elope in South Carolina
Where to Take Engagement Photos in Upstate South Carolina
Taking Photos on Cloudy Days
Photos with your Dog
The idea for this blog post may or may not have come from wanting to blog the first photos I took of Athena. Although I worked in a kennel in college and I’ve had plenty of people bring dogs to their sessions, I don’t have any experience in actual pet photography, so taking pictures of Athena was a new challenge for me. If you want to include your dog in your photos, here are a few tips!
Have realistic expectations. Most of the pictures will either have your dog sitting, standing, or walking. The pictures you saw on Pinterest where the dog is posing with your or holding a sign might not be feasible for a puppy or for an easily excited dog.
These photos were taken when Athena was 8 weeks old and we’d only had her for a few days. She was really excited to be out in an open area, and I was lucky to even have a few pictures of her sitting still.
Bring a helper. There will be photos that don’t include your dog, and there aren’t always places in sight to tie a leash. Your dog might not want to stick around the entire time either, so your helper can take the dog home.
Keep the dog on the leash. This might even be a rule for certain locations. Having your dog on a leash minimizes the chance of running into a dangerous situation or an unpleasant encounter with another human or animal in the area. I know Athena isn’t on a leash in some of these photos—there was absolutely nobody around and we were far away from the woods or the road, so she couldn’t run anywhere unsafe before we could catch her.
Choose a time and place where you would be unlikely to encounter other people or animals. For example, a session at Clemson on a weekday in June would be safer than the Friday before the homecoming game. This ties back into #3: the dog is less likely to be distracted or have an unpleasant interaction with someone. Even if your dog is friendly, whoever your dog approaches might not be.
Bring doggy bags. Nothing ruins the moment like realizing what you just stepped in. It’s something Athena likes to eat right now, which means I have to get it out of her mouth with my hands, and it drives me crazy! As new puppy owners, we’re also learning about how not picking up after your dog can spread all kinds of awful things to other animals. Keep the ground clean for us and for whoever comes through afterward.
Bring water. Athena is really good about drinking water, but if she can’t get to her bowl, she gets squirmy and whiny. Keep your dog comfortable!
Check yourselves and your dog for ticks afterwards. A tip I learned from the kennel is to keep a Dixie cup of rubbing alcohol next to you and drop the ticks into it as you pull them off. Otherwise, they could run away and you risk having them come back to you.
Dogs, as well as any animal who’s close to your heart, are always welcome as long as they’re supervised and they won’t harm anyone or anything. I’ve had one session with a chicken and one with a snake, and I’m up for pretty much anything else! Click here to contact me about setting up a session!
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